Thoughts before slumber
"I've changed", "you've changed", "we've changed" to me, aren't acceptable reasons for a couple deciding to split ways. Unless that change is changing for the worst, eg changed into a sex addict, gambler, torturer.
Every phases of our life, we're changing. Even every single day. Something may have happened at work/school that has changed a person, his perception, the way he reacts to future similar situations, even career goals may change, all in a day.
And if that is so, if change is a legitimate reason for a couple to go separate ways, then we're basically dealing with the fact that our relationship partner may not be able to accept that particular change and still love us as us. If that is a legitimate reason, we're actually saying we're game for an unreliable and unsturdy relationship? Because change is nothing like abc; no one can ascertain what comes next and when. So if a relationship isn't built to last through the unprecedented changes, perhaps, it has never been and will never be a reliable and trustworthy one.
If our own families can accept the tremendous changes we've been through since day one and still love us, then why can't the person who claims he/she loves us does the same?
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